
In Damascus, one can look at both worlds (Dunya - earthly life – and the Hereafter) at the very same time. This city is structured in a way where you can indulge in the most mouth watering of food varieties, at the same time spend hours of solitude at the mosque, in pure harmony.
Sufi disciples here might spend the afternoon at an extremely relaxing coffee shop, have a cup of tea with Damascene sweets, then walk back home to recite their Zikr (remembrance of God) in great solitude.
The Sufi disciple is usually a walker who passes through tough trials to get rid of the love of Dunya from his/her Heart. But once that is done with, one is allowed to go back to Dunya and live the good life that God has given us permission to live.
In Damascus you have everything in great moderation: A life of entertainment that seldom rubs shoulders with sin (unlike other capitals of the Arab World that have gone the extra mile into obscenity)… a life where the love of religion does not go into fanatism but stays within the bounds of “love.”
Head covered women in Damascus are different from women in other parts of the world… they are strong women with the freedom to live life fully, while keeping their hearts (and looks) within the codes of Islam. They walk around, go to souk, work, stay home, write, attend concerts, dine out, dance and live life without the heavy iron hand of fanatic extremism at their throats.
In fact, conservative Muslim families over here are miles and oceans away from anything resembling hate. You seldom sit with a conservative family that makes you hate the day you were born from the excess of preaching (whereas that’s exactly what you go through in Wahhabi-ruled societies).
Go to Jordan and sit with a conservative family and prepare yourself for suicidal thoughts at every interval. Go to Saudi Arabia, and within 2 minutes you’ll be chalking with the suffocating extremism.
In Syria, even the most conservative of families live within very relaxed atmospheres of moderation. It’s very difficult to describe what this means, without experiencing it first-hand… but all one can say is… no matter where you are, in coffee shop or mosque in Damascus, you are free to breathe, and you are grateful that God made it possible for something like this to exist.


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